Prayer is such a powerful idea. It seems to us that us praying on behalf of someone else won't really do anything. Part of this stems from the fact that many prayers aren't answered the way we want them to be. So we think that God doesn't care about our prayers. But this is not true at all. The Bible tells us the exact opposite. It starts in Genesis 25. "Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife, because she was barren. The LORD answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant." God answered Isaac's prayer. "O LORD Almighty, God of Israel, you have revealed this to your servant, saying, 'I will build a house for you.' So your servant has found courage to offer you this prayer." Again, God answers Samuel's prayer. David talks about it in Psalm 4:1. "Answer me when I call to you, O my righteous God. Give me relief from my distress; be merciful to me and hear my prayer."
And the best example of prayer in the Bible is the Lord's Prayer. "And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
"This, then, is how you should pray: " 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name,
your kingdom come,
your will be done
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one ' For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
This comes from Matthew 6. This is how we are supposed to pray. It shouldn't be to glorify us. It should be for the glory of God. We don't have to pray the best prayer. We just have to bring ourselves before Him, and humble ourselves so that we can truly listen to Him. It doesn't matter what you say as long as you say what is in your heart. That is what God wants to hear. He wants us to bring us to Him and ask Him to help because we can't do it on our own.
So don't be afraid to bring your problems to Him. He is the one who can deal with them. He is the only one who can. We can make a difference with our prayers. God does listen to them, and although it might not be the answer we want to hear, it will be in accordance with His will and that is the only will that matters.